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EGO-Less Teaching: Being Above the Fray to Truly Reach Students
In education, we are going to be tested. Our patience will be tested. Our triggers will be tested. And often, it happens when we least expect it. Many times, those moments come from students we expect challenges from, but just as often, they come from students we don’t. Our most challenging learners are often the ones who know exactly which buttons to push. And here’s the hard truth: when those buttons get pushed, a lot of the time, it’s on us. It’s on us when we lack the sel

Vilenti Tulloch
Jan 54 min read


When Parents Get Angry, It’s Okay, Here’s What It Really Means
By: Vilenti D. Tulloch SR Sometimes, as educators, we encounter parents who appear frustrated, angry, or upset. It’s easy to take that personally or feel defensive, but what looks like anger or discontent is often just another form of communication. A parent may not have the language, the context, or the understanding of school systems that we do. They might not fully grasp the “why” behind certain decisions, and that’s not their fault. When we call parents only about behavio

Vilenti Tulloch
Dec 17, 20253 min read


Why I Wrote Engage to Excel: A Call to Reconnect, Reimagine, and Truly See Our Students
If you’ve spent any time in schools, especially middle schools, you know something is shifting. You can feel it in the hallways, see it in classrooms, and hear it in conversations with educators who are trying their best but are stretched thin. Middle school students are different. Their needs are different. Their emotional maturity is developing at a time when the world around them is more complex than ever. And yet, despite this, one truth remains: Students will rise when t

Vilenti Tulloch
Dec 4, 20254 min read


Engage to Excel- Blog #1
Representation Matters — For Every Student, in Every Classroom, in Every District Representation Matters — For Every Student, in Every Classroom, in Every District By: Vilenti Tulloch - Author of Engage to Excel: Building Trust, Belonging & Success in the Middle School Years When we talk about representation in education, we are not speaking solely about studen ts of color finally seeing themselves reflected in the classroom. Representation benefits all students. Every class

Vilenti Tulloch
Nov 28, 20253 min read
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